FF

Freaking hate it when people use:

1) Regarding about
2) Discussing about
3) Oggle/Oogle instead of ogle
4) Whinning instead of whining

GET IT RIGHT YOU MORONS.

I am afraid of many things, but most of all, I am afraid that one day, I will no longer be my own person.

Like when the achievements I boast about are no longer my own. For example, my boyfriend/husband just got promoted. My baby just took her first step. My kid just got into the best primary school in Singapore, JB, and some say Batam. You know, shit like that.

Like if I get attached to someone, the kind where I am attached at the hip, and I am no longer able to have a life of my own, and I lose my ability to have an opinion of my own, that’s scary shit. If one day you ask me something simple, and I say, erm let me ask my partner, please slap me! Or if you ask me out for drinks, and I say, oh let me check if my partner is free, then I am telling you now to not bother to ask me out again.

You know, shit like that.

Everybody has an iPhone but me.

The next person who asks eh all of us have iPhones, when’s your turn? will get punched in the nose.

I was reading the Singapore Brides forum about angpao during wedding banquets, and I felt disgusted.

I don’t like Chinese wedding banquets. People always say it’s for the parents and not the couple, because the couple probably doesn’t know half the people present at the banquet.

But that’s beside the point.

What disgusted me was their bitching about how some couples gave so little angpao, and don’t they know the market rate for angpao? Some even went as far as saying, oh you shouldn’t invite the [insert different races here] because they will give less. And oh, some people ah, come as couple and give so little somemore dare write their name on the angpao. Some even bitched about making losses during their wedding.

Since when did weddings become so business like? What happened to the whole gist of a wedding? Did it get lost between the angpao giving and the raucous yum sengs?

I mean, fair enough that we have traditions and customs we have to uphold here, it’s just the attitude of the people that irks me. I just hate the idea that you expect other people to pay exactly the market rate or more for your grand wedding otherwise you bitch about them cos this kind of attitude really spoils the whole meaning of a wedding. A union of two souls, hello?

Maybe I just sour grapes cos I got no wedding. :(